Sometimes, that response you get that seems mean or oppositional just isn’t that mean or oppositional. Sometimes the person misunderstood you, or they didn’t get the tone right, or they just don’t have great communication skills. On the other hand, they may instantly hate you and all that you do, in which case THEY have a big problem, which you would do best not to inflame. Words people type on the internet are not that important! Go take a walk, light up, look at bunnies, step away from the screen.